Ok so I had a very interesting day yesterday that carried over to today and I just have to take a moment to "write it out". A great writer Betty J. Eadie wrote a book called "The Ripple Effect". This is just one in a series of books she wrote after a near death experience where she was given the gift of remembering what her brief time in Heaven was like while she was clinically dead following a unforeseen complication after surgery. If you have not read her first book "Embraced by The Light" I HIGHLY recommend picking up a copy. I will tell you it changed my life forever. At any rate, Betty in "The Ripple Effect" talks about how we as people have send out positive and negative ripples into the world every day in what we say or do. For instance an example of how this works. If upon entering a grocery store I notice that there is someone struggling to make their way out of the store, I may instinctively hold the door open for that individual (positive ripple). Now I don't know that person or what their day may have been like but that very gesture of holding the door for a complete stranger may have a huge impact to them.  It may have meant nothing but ultimately I sent a positive ripple out into the universe. On the other hand, had I just let that person struggle with their bags to get out  the door and just worry about my self I am sending a different message about the person I am (negative ripple) that may stay with that person for all the wrong reasons. They may walk away and think "how rude", or "I can't believe that people just aren't willing to help others even with the small stuff", or could be as significant as a thought "Gee it would have been nice if that person would have helped me out for a minute".